Toxic Love: What Disney Taught Us About Relationships

Hey there! Let’s talk about something juicy: toxic relationships. Yep, we’re diving into the deep end of Disney and beyond to unravel the not-so-happy endings we’ve been spoon-fed since childhood.

Remember Cinderella and Ariel? They said “I do” to dudes they just met, sending the message that love at first sight equals happily ever after. But hold up, Disney, that’s not how it works in the real world!

Then there’s Esmeralda from "The Hunchback of Notre Dame." She went gaga for the prince, ignoring poor Quasimodo’s heart of gold. Beauty and the Beast? Belle fell for a guy who needed a serious attitude adjustment. And don’t even get me started on Sleeping Beauty—kissed without consent? Not cool!

Fast forward to Sex and the City, where we swooned over Big, the emotionally distant dude. Let’s face it, his behavior was toxic AF, yet we idolized him. Sound familiar?

So, why do we keep falling for these broken characters? Well, it’s partly because that’s all we’ve been shown. But fear not, there’s light at the end of this toxic tunnel. Here are some tips to break the cycle:

 🌟 Know Your Worth: You deserve respect, love, and someone who sees you for you, not just your potential to change them.

 💖 Consent Is Sexy: Always, always prioritize consent—whether it’s a kiss or something more.

 🌱 Embrace Personal Growth: Take a page from your own book and invest in personal development. It’s not just for Instagram—it’s for your own well-being.

 🌸 Choose Wisely: Look beyond the surface. Is your love interest really Prince Charming, or just another frog waiting to be kissed?

 🌿 Communicate Boundaries: Don’t be afraid to set boundaries and stick to them. Your mental health is non-negotiable.

Remember, you’re the leading lady in your own story. Don’t settle for a toxic supporting role.

Whether it’s Disney or real life, rewrite the script and find your happily ever after on your own terms.